"Dear diary. I have just sent the 537th messenger confirming that we are attacking together tomorrow morning at 9. I'm just waiting on confirmation."
You have that confirmation of agreement in the third round of messages. Receipt of the fourth message proves that both sides have knowledge and have agreed, aware of the other's intent. That's the message you have to prove has arrived for surety. Once you've done enough messages to prove message #4, you're good to go.
You have that confirmation of agreement in the third round of messages. Receipt of the fourth message proves that both sides have knowledge and have agreed, aware of the other's intent. That's the message you have to prove has arrived for surety. Once you've done enough messages to prove message #4, you're good to go.