Right, but those forces and effects drop off with distance. The alignments we're observing are many, many, many orders of magnitude too far dispersed to be explainable by known forces.
It would be like finding a few dozen planets floating in interstellar space hundreds of lightyears away, much further away than the nearest stars, but on analysis finding that they all happen to be rotating around our sun even though our sun's gravity is utterly overwhelmed by the gravity of other objects much closer to them.
The same is true of a skin cell in your foot vs in your ear. You'd find remarkable similarity even though there is no apparent reason they would be similar until you comprehend the superstructure.
The idea is that the similarities across vast amounts of space would not be due to first order effects from forces, but rather much more complex and subtle interactions over time that happen to have structure rather than being purely random, just as life emerged from seemingly random interactions in primordial pools.
Well of course it seems likely some form of interaction at some point in the past or present is behind these effects, we just don’t know what it was or is. If that’s all your saying, sure.
It would be like finding a few dozen planets floating in interstellar space hundreds of lightyears away, much further away than the nearest stars, but on analysis finding that they all happen to be rotating around our sun even though our sun's gravity is utterly overwhelmed by the gravity of other objects much closer to them.