Not to discourage you from making voice recordings and all that, but as someone who is handicapped and sometimes has trouble speaking because of it:
1. I spend a lot of time online. It doesn't matter so much there. I do a lot of typing.
2. My oldest son, who had serious output difficulties as a child, is talented at inferring what I need from a gesture and a grunt. This has proven enormously helpful.
3. Consider using her phone as a communication device. It's small and people tend to take their phone everywhere and she can type out what she wants to say.
4. Writing tweets can help a person learn to say things more succinctly. I do freelance writing and figuring out how to say things succinctly is a talent you can develop. (It's something I have to work at -- I'm a "would have written you a shorter letter if I had more time" type of person.) This can help enormously when you face communication barriers.
5. Take some time to deal with the emotional stuff. It matters.
1. I spend a lot of time online. It doesn't matter so much there. I do a lot of typing.
2. My oldest son, who had serious output difficulties as a child, is talented at inferring what I need from a gesture and a grunt. This has proven enormously helpful.
3. Consider using her phone as a communication device. It's small and people tend to take their phone everywhere and she can type out what she wants to say.
4. Writing tweets can help a person learn to say things more succinctly. I do freelance writing and figuring out how to say things succinctly is a talent you can develop. (It's something I have to work at -- I'm a "would have written you a shorter letter if I had more time" type of person.) This can help enormously when you face communication barriers.
5. Take some time to deal with the emotional stuff. It matters.
I'm sorry you are facing this. Best of luck.