If you thrive on adversity and school doesn't offer any it is easy (even for a kid) to seek it out.
However, if you don't thrive on adversity and school doesn't provide a safe environment, you're screwed. There aren't many other choices.
That's the issue. Nobody's saying that your experiences are bad, or that conflict is bad. But some folks don't "develop bullshit tolerance" from adverse experiences in school; they develop trauma.
However, if you don't thrive on adversity and school doesn't provide a safe environment, you're screwed. There aren't many other choices.
That's the issue. Nobody's saying that your experiences are bad, or that conflict is bad. But some folks don't "develop bullshit tolerance" from adverse experiences in school; they develop trauma.