I'd used nginx for work stuff for close to 10 years and still didn't trust myself writing configs from scratch without comparing with known-good ones. I never had that problem with Apache, so take from that what you want.

I'm not doing SRE stuff at work anymore (or it's on AWS) - so I've been using caddy for my own stuff for a couple of years with nearly zero problems.

For work I still might use traefik or nginx, my only reason against caddy were bad experiences in their support forum, but that was years ago.