Putting the protection circuit* on the battery's negative pole is standard best practice (due to NMOS efficiency, and it not being a problem in the slightest), and the 50mΩ actually improves balancing. Please avoid making comments like this based on half knowledge.
[*] I do wish it were an actual full protection circuit. It isn't. Then again a run of the mill protection circuit commonly doesn't cover reversed polarity [between protector and cell], which is rather important for this specific appliation.
Look at the reference circuits, it's a pair of antiserial NMOS on the negative pole.
(Those 2 protection circuits are at the opposite ends of complexity & features)
To be clear, using 2 PMOS on the positive pole is also quite common, my choice of words with "standard best practice" might be a bit misleading.
> use bus bars to minimize wiring resistance.
Those come after the protection circuit, there should always be 2 MOSFETs in series with the individual Li-Ion cell in a design like this (specifically: user swappable cell).
(Protecting paralleled cells together is kinda nonsensical because you also want to protect them from each other, I don't think I've ever seen a 2P combined protection circuit.)
> Those datasheets show creating a series pack/cell.
You seem to only have looked at the TI one, the Diodes one is for a single cell.
& if the cells are "permanently" connected in a pack, you wouldn't have individual cell protection and just have them properly balanced before connecting them in factory.
[*] I do wish it were an actual full protection circuit. It isn't. Then again a run of the mill protection circuit commonly doesn't cover reversed polarity [between protector and cell], which is rather important for this specific appliation.